Whatta Man

I wanna take a minute or two and give much respect due
To the man that's made a difference in my world...

Am I ready to be in a relationship? No.
Do I need to have a relationship? No.
I've come to realize that I am so content with not having a relationship in my life. While all my friends settle down in their lives, I choose not to. Many may say it's because I haven't found the right person, which may very well be true but I have a different explanation.

I have a man who treats me right. He takes me on the sweetest dates. He puts my needs first. He takes me out to candlelit dinners. He sings to me and whispers sweet nothings in my ear. He always walks me to my front door and tells me he misses me after days apart.

I have a man who I have deep, meaningful conversations with over a bottle of wine. We walk by the waterfront under the moonlight and talk all night. We share our innermost secrets and desires. Whenever we are in a crowded room, no one else stands a chance because it's like we're the only ones in the room.

I have a man who will whisk me away and make me forget all my worries. He takes me to exotic locations and urban escapes. We can enjoy museums and local pubs. We've driven hours on end with nothing to show for it but our memories. We've flown across the country to explore sights unseen. We've only begun to explore.

I have a man who will listen to me in bed. Just like a good student, he listens to everything I say. He absorbs all the knowledge and shows me what he's learned. I teach him things that I know will satisfy the both of us. He wants to make me happy.

I have a man who can satisfy my sexual whims. He knows when to be gentle and when exactly to fuck me like an animal. He experiments with me, he waits for my approval to try new things and he doesn't disappoint. He shows up at a moments notice just to have his way with me. His touch against my skin is enough to get me started but his lips are what keep me coming back, wherever he may place them. And the sex, the gratifying sex.

I have a man who understands all of this about me and knows me better than I like to admit. We've known each other for so many years that he knows my family and I know his. He knows that I'm not all talk and loves that about me. He doesn't see himself in a relationship either but can envision one with me.

Perfect man, right? Why aren't I in a relationship with him? Because I'm talking about 6 men. And with men like these, who needs commitment?